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Joseph Rahi's avatar

I agree, the inference by analogy theory feels convoluted and doesn't track with my own experience of empathy.

For one thing, I feel for things as different in behaviour from myself as a tree or a rock or the ocean. I can't help it. To me, a stormy sea feels angry and tumultuous, and a sick tree feels sad. I can't be alone in this either, because our language and especially poetry are littered with references to such things with feelings. We all intuitively grasp their meanings.

Although perhaps this is a product of simulation, or something like it. Not quite the explicit imagining myself in their shoes, but in having any idea of them in my mind, my mind might be said to become them, following Aristotle's idea that "the soul is in a way all things", and that we know things by their forms being imprinted upon our minds. And if we combine this with Aristotle's notion that the soul is the form of a living thing, then knowing a living thing (qua that kind of living thing) might be said to involve its soul truly existing within your own. Which also adds a nice angle to his comment that friendship is "a single soul dwelling in two bodies".

Coming from a different angle, it doesn't make much sense for us to evolve to have to infer the existence of other minds. It would be much simpler to evolve to intuitively/instinctively grasp the minds and intentions of others, perhaps even before we evolved to introspect and understand our own feelings.

We might also consider that certain behaviours transmit feelings without any need for analogy or inference to understand them. A baby crying is an unpleasant noise by design, so their pain is transmitted to those around it almost directly, while laughter is a pleasant noise by design. Empathy may begin with directly transmitting one's own feelings in such a way.

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Mike Smith's avatar

I think we do logically infer the mental states of others, but most of it isn't conscious. We've been a social species for a long time. We've likely built up a lot of instinctive reactions about the behavior of others. Which is amended and adjusted as we gain experience in the world. It seems like we lean heavily on that unconscious toolset.

The drawback is that sometimes it can mislead us, particularly if someone is from another culture or ethnicity. The way a lot of people in the west can misinterpret eyes with heavy epicanthic folds as boredom or cynicism comes to mind.

Of course, it's also subject to being fooled by deliberate acting on someone's part, assuming they're skilled enough to be convincing. I'm sure acting in a misleading way is as old as social interactions.

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